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Male (34) looking for Female Allen, Texas, United States

Helo my name is REDACTED REDACTED and I live at XXX REDACTED Ln, Plano TX.

Life's not a story. You aren't a protagonist. Thinking like that's going to have you end up in a dark room crying, watching The Notebook, and eating ice cream.

And if person's tears fall into their Reeses pieces sundae cup, with no one else there to hear it, does it make a sound?

I don't want to find out. So I don't think of my life as a story. There's not a plot, there is no "should be". That's not life, that's something for stories and idealists and people destined for disappointment. Life just is, and we've got to learn to make the best of what we've been given.

It's my solemn belief that the truth is that not one inch of this world has ever, or ever will be, subdued by the forces of control. This is the truth that shall finally capsize this boat, which has served us admirably, but is now our prison galley, sailing forever away from our home. And when this boat is capsized, when all become aware of the lie of control all of the lies that we have so carefully matted against the windows of the world like lace doilies of some fearful, ancient dowager, whose betrothed died the day before our sacred matrimony was to take place, sparing us even the dignity of the widowed, when you understand that there are no guarantees, no promises, no second chances, that you are subject to death without warning. Admittedly, none of this quite makes sense. I swear to you, a long time ago it did. I had some sort of vision of how all of this would unfold, and I can’t quite recapture it now. Perhaps the things of which I now speak will only become truly clear when they come to pass.

When you suddenly understand that just as you are subject to death without warning, so too are you free to live without warning, that you are free to love without warning, that you are free to love who you want, without warning. That you are free to love what you want, you are free to love how you want, without warning. When you take that and tattoo it on your heart, that you are free to live without offering warning, maybe your life will me alright.

See, I think of life as a roller coaster ride. So people tell me, Carter, that's horrible! You think all of this stuff we do in our lives, you think that's all just a big meaningless ride?

I do. And it is. But that's OK. Just because it's a ride, doesn't mean you shouldn't enjoy it, and do your best to make it as enjoyable as you can for everyone you meet. This ride's all we've got. So take the ups and downs, twists and turns with a scream and a smile,

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